Living on an island teaches you things you don't always realize you're learning.
Some of it is practical. Some of it is seasonal. Some of it is hard to explain unless you've been here long enough to stop explaining.
This is a small collection of those lessons.
Not rules. Not marketing. Just things that tend to help - before you arrive, while you're here, and long after you've gone home.
Read what's useful. Skip what's not. The island doesn't mind either way.
These notes come from life on Annabessacook Lake in Monmouth, Maine — near Winthrop and the Winthrop Lakes Region.
Before You Arrive
Things that calm nerves and lower shoulders, based on our decades of experience. People usually find these guides helpful while planning - or quietly wondering if they're about to forget something important.
- Is a Private Island Stay Right for You? (A Gentle Reality Check)
Helps you decide honestly. Builds confidence for the right guests. Politely releases the rest. - Getting Here Without Stress: How Arrival Works at 1BSI
Parking, boats, luggage, rain, being late. Read once. Worry less. - The Ultimate Packing Guide for Private Island Glamping
How to pack light, feel prepared, and avoid carrying your house across the lake. - 10 Best Maine Lake Activities Near 1 Big Sustainable Island
We'll keep you busy experiencing nature firsthand. - Why Off-Grid Retreats are Maine's Next Travel Trend
In an ocean of over complexification, meet simple and sane.
While You're Here
Things that help the days unfold naturally. These aren't itineraries. They're more like reassurance - about pace, weather, and what "doing it right" actually means.
- What a Day on a Private Island Actually Feels Like
Not a schedule. A rhythm. - First-Time Island Guest Survival Guide
Short, calming, slightly humorous. Especially useful if this all feels new. - A Weather-Proof Guide to Enjoying the Island
Rain, fog, wind, shoulder seasons. Very Maine. Very workable. - Maine Lake Etiquette (Things Locals Don't Explain, But Appreciate)
Quiet wisdom, shared gently. The lake notices.
Why This Place Works
The deeper stuff (read whenever). These pieces tend to find people later - sometimes weeks after a visit - when something clicks and they want to understand why.
- Why Doing Less on Vacation Feels So Hard (And Why It's Worth It)
Productivity guilt, rest, and the first 24 hours no one warns you about. - Accidentally Sustainable: What Low-Impact Travel Actually Looks Like
Sustainability when it's normal, not performative. - The Difference Between a Stay and a Place
Memory, ritual, return visits, and why some places don't let go. - How to Know When It's Time to Come Back
A gentle field guide to Island Withdrawal Syndrome.
A Final Note
This isn't required reading.
It's here so that if you're wondering about something - logistics, pace, weather, why this place feels the way it does - you don't have to guess.
We've been living and learning out here for a while. This is just a small record of what's stuck.
Take what helps. Leave the rest. The island will meet you where you are.